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Online dating safety

Meeting new people should be exciting, not risky. A few simple habits handle nearly all of the risk — and cost you almost nothing.

The 60-second safety checklist
  • Keep personal details private until trust is earned.
  • Video chat before you meet in person.
  • Always meet in a public place, first time.
  • Arrange your own transport there and back.
  • Tell a friend where you will be and when.
  • Never send money, gift cards, or banking details.
  • Trust your gut — leaving is always allowed.
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If you ever feel unsafe. If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency number. If someone harasses or threatens you, save the evidence, then block and report them using the app's built-in tools. Keeping yourself safe is never an overreaction.